THE PROPOSAL involved oysters and champagne, a lot of champagne, OK a heck of a lot of champagne. So much champagne that neither Wil nor Gregory can remember who proposed to whom. Nevertheless, the two CAN remember that they professed their love and commitment to each other. The two now sport engagement rings (Gregory a diamond, Wil an emerald-cut sapphire [yep, it really is 5 carats!]), and the two intend to live happily ever after and continue to consume oysters and . . . champagne.